Derrick was a incredible man, one of life’s absolute greats, a real character and a true gent. He made a lasting and resounding impression on me as a young boy growing up which I took with me into adult life. I will never ever forget the influence he had and still remember it all fondly to this day.
The laughs we all had together growing up which he was more often the instigator and centre of.
He was the definition of generosity of spirit.
Every time I saw him in recent times he made me laugh and smile with his wit and humour. They certainly don’t make them like him anymore. A fantastic man to the core.
My thoughts are with you all you, my sincere condolences. xx
Mark Ling
8th November 2022
It's never the right time
To say goodbye.
I will miss you, Dad,
And here is why.
You taught me so much:
To show no fear,
To always have fun,
And face the day with cheer.
You were always so able,
So fast and so strong.
In your little boy's eyes
You could do no wrong.
You would always listen,
And you never pried.
You were the arms around me
When I cried.
You never looked for praises,
And you were never one to boast.
You were always there
For those you loved the most.
You worked so hard,
And those strong working hands
Led me through life
And helped me understand
That life can be hard,
And tough, and sad,
But through it all
I had my Dad.
And because of you,
I understood
That life was actually
Pretty good.
I believe in you
And will follow your path,
And when things go wrong,
I'll look back and laugh.
I hope you can hear me
So I can let you know
That you were and will forever
Be my superhero.
So yes, today
I am full of sorrow,
But I will smile a little more
With each tomorrow.
So please, Dad, go
Be at rest
And know to me
You were always the best.
I love you so much and miss you every day!
X
Martin
24th October 2022
I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are.
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.
Extract from a poem by Henry Scott Holland